IS DISABILITY A BAD WORD?

 Hmmm?  Is it a bad word? It depends on the individual. First, You have to realize that we are Human Beings. As Human Beings, we have feelings. People just assume that just because, we can't talk or walk. We can't communicate or comprehend anything. It might be hard to express those feelings to other people.  In my opinion, Disable is what we is and not who we are.

I had to overcome some obstacles as a Child. I was self-conscious about things concerning myself. I wanted to be a lawyer growing up. I was in Mock Trials and everything. Yet, I convinced myself that i wasn't good enough to be a lawyer. I regretted that decision till this day. However, I obtained two Degrees. One is in Business Administration and the other is in Human Services. You can't let one word deter you from pursuing what God has for you!   Disability is what you make it.  You can let it interrupt your joy or you can build   Life Ramps to maneuver through Life. We are here for a reason. 

Disability is a hurdle yet; it is not impossible. It ultimately depends on you as well as your Family Support that you have and your outlook on Life.    I wrote a Book titled "My Wheelchair and the World: Through Life's Obstacles, I Arise".  It's on Amazon. I want you to be encouraged as you read it.  In Life, We  all have something that we think needs fixing. The question is how bad do you want to fix it? How can you fix it?

Man vs Disability: Being Confident!

 I'm speaking for myself when I say I don't know if i would have made it through Life without Cerebral Palsy! The reason why i say that is because, it motivates me to keep going in Life. Sure, I'm scared of the fables of  people taking advantage of me, not being able to do things with my kids and Wife (when God Permits  me to have one). These are the things that  think about on a daily basis. I want my Wife to be proud of me. I want my kids  to look at me and know Daddy will exhaust all possibilities to provide for them.   Being a black man is already difficult but  being a Black man that has a Disability is another level.  Society has place barriers on us: mentally, physically as well as emotionally.  Mentally, we are insecure due to the World's standards.   Physically, we have insecurities. In our minds, we are thinking how will a Husbands or Wife will want me as a Life Partner. 

Being  Confident with any Disability is not easy. It is attainable through Jesus, Friends and Family. A person has to train his self or her self to find their positives. You can't worry about your weaknesses, until your  strengths can hold  their own. Then, you can go back and fix your weakness.Whether, it is your looks, your  confident, or whatever it is.  It can be fix if you are willing to put in the work. It is not the end of the  World. I'm living proof that you can live a  good life with a Disability.   The Doctor counted me out from 1 years old. The Doctors said that  i wouldn't finish school nor be able to talk. I've received myAssociate degree in Business Admin as well as my Bachelor's in Human Services.  

I'm encouraging you to be yourself because you can help someone else. We have to invest in people.  I'm investing in people with Disabilities because, we need a voice. I'm only one man with a purpose. I don't expect people to except me with open arms but  please except my blogs and gain knowledge from it. A man is a man with or without a Disability. It's up to you to figure out the foundation of him!!!                                    

Adaptive Relationship: How to Tell if Someone You Love Them?

 Intimacy, passion, and devotion are all hallmarks of love, as are a set of feelings and actions. It includes care, closeness, defense, fascination, warmth, and trust.

Intensity and change in love can vary over time. It is related with a scope of positive feelings, including joy, energy, life fulfillment, and rapture, however it can likewise bring about gloomy feelings like desire and stress.

With regards to adore, certain individuals would agree that it is quite possibly of the main human inclination. However in spite of being perhaps of the most concentrated on conduct, it is as yet the most un-comprehended. Love, for instance, is most likely influenced by both biology and culture. Researchers debate whether love is a cultural or biological phenomenon. The way we express and experience love is also influenced by our personal conceptions of love, despite the importance of hormones and biology.

How to Love Someone You Care About?

There is no single method for rehearsing love. Each relationship is remarkable, and every individual brings their own set of experiences and needs. A things that you can do to show love to individuals you care about include:

Prepare to be vulnerable.

Be open to forgiveness.

Be willing to apologise when you make mistakes and try your best.

Tell them that you give it a second thought.

Keep an ear out for what they have to say.

Focus on investing energy with the other individual.

React to cherishing motions and thoughtful gestures.

Perceive and recognize their great characteristics.

Share things about yourself.

Show fondness.

Make it obligatory.

How Love Affects Mental Health Love, affection, and attachment all have a significant effect on one's well-being and quality of life. Adoring connections have been connected to:

Lower hazard of coronary illness

Diminished hazard of biting the dust after a heart attack

Better wellbeing propensities

Expanded longevity

Lower feelings of anxiety

Less depression

Lower chance of diabetes

How Would You Realize You're Having Affection toward Somebody?

What are a portion of the indications of affection? The feelings of liking and loving another person have been distinguished by researchers.

.As indicated by clinician Zick Rubin, heartfelt love is comprised of three elements:3

Rubin Z. Darlings and Different Outsiders: The Growth of Intimacy in Relationships and Meetings: Exploratory investigations of self-revelation between outsiders at transport stops and in air terminal flight parlors can give signs about the advancement of personal connections. American Researcher. 1974;62(2):182-190.

Attachment: Desiring physical contact and approval as well as a need to be with another person 

Caring: Prioritizing the needs and happiness of the other person over your own 

Sharing confidential contemplations, sentiments, and wants with the other individual.

Interabled Relationships sometimes referred to as "interabled couples" when one partner has a disability while the other does not. The term additionally can demonstrate that individuals have two unique inabilities, or a similar incapacity yet at various stages.  This love is still new because, the world's view on it. The generation of  Today is so consumed by looks and not the heart.                     

Love is the most precious thing that you can give somebody. Why limit it due to not understanding the unknown?

Relationship Advice & Tips: Disability mix with Love!

Relationships require a variety of things to flourish and may be rather complex for many people. As fulfilling as a relationship may be, it can also present a variety of difficulties for couples. However, understanding what makes a relationship work or receiving the correct relationship advice might help you experience the delights of being with someone with whom you can grow old. This comprehensive reference contains articles on relationships as well as quizzes and quotations to assist you in your quest to make your relationship better and happier.

When things go wrong in a relationship, it can bring joy and passion as well as a great deal of pain. It is necessary to strike a balance in order to guarantee the longevity of such relationships, which can even have an impact on your quality of life, as there are numerous factors that can have a positive or negative effect.

What are the essential thoughts regarding connections?

1.Relationships may engender emotions of ardor and fulfillment as well as inflict great suffering when things go wrong. The duration of these interactions, which may even affect your quality of life, depends on finding a balance among a variety of circumstances that might either favorably or adversely affect them.

What exactly is love's true meaning in a relationship?

Love in a relationship takes many structures, and a couple can likewise be seeing someone a lot of time without understanding its actual importance. Love completes a relationship, but it takes time for it to blossom.

How to get a girlfriend or boyfriend?

In a new relationship, it's important for both partners to show love and affection without being mean. Be realistic and avoid rushing into future plans with unreasonable expectations are among the dos and don'ts.

What routines are necessary to establish a satisfying relationship?

Couples in good health either consciously or unconsciously engage in certain behaviors that enhance their relationship's growth. Showing gratitude, cultivating shared interests, or working on healthy communication are examples of simple habits that become habits.

How to stop falling in love with yourself?

When our partners support us through difficulties and show concern for our well-being, we can see how crucial a relationship is to our lives. But what happens when you lose yourself in a relationship and feel like you don't have control over your life or aren't happy? 

You can do the same thing with Disability!

This Blog is intended to focus on Love, Relationship & Disability whether it's physical or mental. We all have something that  yearns inside of us! I have a  physical disability, yet, i want Love, Kids and Longevity Marriage. I welcome you to Wheel Life with me. We will talk about everything Disability